May 17, 2012

How to get married in less than 4-months

Everyone desires to have a soul mate. It is not very difficult to get married, nor is it hard to find a spouse. If you are honestly seeking to settle down, have a job and live happily there is a solution to your problem. This is the golden truth that can be put to test; for Muslims as well as non-Muslims. What I am about to share with you will change your life forever insha-Allah. Even the most talented, highly educated and most resourceful people (or organizations) in the entire world can not solve this problem; nor make any such promises to anyone. You will find books titled, "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" but none of these books can guarantee a marriage or a spouse. However, there is one Internationally renowned book that provides the solution. In fact, it challenges mankind to apply its formula and experience the beauty and sweetness of becoming married. In as much as many have tried to "Burn" the Quran, accused it of spreading violence and terrorism; surprisingly it happens to be the ONLY Book on the planet earth that teaches the message of love, affection and marriage (besides a million other great things). So are you ready to embark on this journey? Are you sincerely seeking to get married? Are you ready to apply the Quranic truth and experience its reality? Or are you just playing around?

Today, hundreds and thousands of "match-makers" try and link people together. But the beauty of the Quran is in its simplicity. I met my wife and married her after reading this verse of the Glorious Quran. Let meshare with  you the golden verse of the Noble Quran that holds the golden keys to getting married.

All you have to do on a daily basis is start reciting this verse from the Holy Quran:

Rabbi inni lemaa anzalta elayya min khairin faqeer (Chapter 28, verse 24)


Verse 24 is the Supplication or "Du'a" that everyone needs to read, if not memorize. Whenever, you feel lonely and full of desire for a spouse, or feel the pain of not having a wife or husband, then start reading this dua. Read it standing, sitting, walking, laying, before prayers, after prayers and in any mode of your daily activities and as many times. Below is the Arabic of what was transliterated above:

رَبِّ إِنِّى لِمَآ أَنزَلۡتَ إِلَىَّ مِنۡ خَيۡرٍ۬ فَقِيرٌ۬

Insha Allah within 4-months you will see the doors open and Allah ta'ala will alleviate/remove your pain by providing you with a spouse. So, what you have to do is after you read this verse a number of times; make sure to ask Allah (God) in a way similar to what follows:

"Oh Allah! You have made every living thing in pairs. The sincere, beautiful and pious pair that you have created for me, please give it to me"


It is recommended that one recites this verse at least 10times and after finishing this dua ask Allah Almighty for a spouse that is kind, beautiful, soft hearted, pious, loving and a gentle soul mate. What you want in your spouse is what you should ask but if you don't ask for piety or kind heartedness then don't blame anyone but yourself.

Interesting Facts
You would have to turn your attention to Suratul-Qasas (Arabic: سورة القصص‎) (The Stories). This is the 28th surah (chapter) of the Qur'an with 88 ayats (verses). Lexically, "Qasas" means to relate events in their proper sequence. In fact, this Surah details the story of the Sayyidna Musa alayhi salaam (Prophet Moses). So, here is the background to this wonderful incident as explained in the Quran:

  • And a man came from the uttermost part of the city, running. He said: O Musa! Lo! the chiefs take counsel against thee to slay thee; therefor escape. Lo! I am of those who give thee good advice (20)
  • So he (Sayyidna Musa alayhi salaam) escaped from thence, fearing, vigilant. He said: Ya Rab! Deliver me from the wrongdoing folk. (21)
  • And when he turned his face toward Midian, he said: Per adventure my Lord will guide me in the right road. (22)
  • And when he came unto the water of Midian he found there a whole tribe of men, watering. And he found apart from them two women keeping back (their flocks). He said: What aileth you? The two said: We cannot give (our flocks) to drink till the shepherds return from the water; and our father is a very old man. (23)
  •  So he watered (their flock) for them. Then he turned aside into the shade, and said: My Lord! I am needy of whatever good Thou sendest down for me. (24)
So, why does this supplication work so well? Allah ta'ala gives the response in the Quran immediately after this verse.
  • Then there came unto him one of the two women, walking shyly. She said: Lo! my father biddeth thee, that he may reward thee with a payment for that thou didst water (the flock) for us. Then, when he came unto him and told him the (whole) story, he said: Fear not! Thou hast escaped from the wrongdoing folk. (25)
  • One of the two women said, O my father! Hire him. For the best (man) that thou can hire is the strong, the trustworthy.(26)
Therefore, one can see that Sayyidna Musa alayhi salaam found a spouse and he landed himself a job. The key Arabic word to note is that after Sayyidna Musa alayhi salaam finished his dua, the response from Allah ta'ala was very fast; otherwise known in Arabic as "Bis-sura'a" (speedy). Verse 25 starts with the Arabic word "Fa Jaa'at huma...". Any verse that starts with "faa" and not "waa" is an indication that the response will be immediate.

Wish you all the best and let me know if you got married. Ameen.
For any questions and queries please email: ekustomize@yahoo.com

Methods and Procedures of Making this dua
Firstly:
Since, this is an ayat of the Quran it is not recommended by the Ulema (please check with askimam.org) women who have their period should avoid reciting this ayat of the Quran.

Secondly:
Since, this is a dua it can be made at anytime meaning walking, running, sitting and laying down. As many times and as much as one desires. While engaged in any of these activities one should read as much as ones heart desires. But if you are looking to do it a fixed number of times than 10, 33 & 100 times are good according to ones ability.

Thirdly:
Since, this is a dua it can be included in all your daily duas that you make after your obligatory prayers.

Forthly:
If at any other times you wish to sit down and take the time to especially make this dua (for example at Tahajjud, before Maghrib prayers or at any other times). In this case the recommended way is (with or without wudu):
-Recite Bismillah
-Recite Surah Fatihah
-Recite Salwaatun-alan-nabiyy (Durood Shareef as commonly known in subcontinent)
-Make tawba to Allah ta'ala
-Read the dua of Surah Qasas
-Then ASK Allah ta'ala for a spouse.
-Finish with Durood Shareef
NOTE: When you ASK Allah ta'ala make sure you ask for a spouse that is pious, upright, honest, caring, loving, responsible and anything more as long as it is "jaiz" - not outside the circle of deen. For example, don't ask for a "clean shaved" husband or "a wife without hijaab".


Arabic Morphology

...My Lord! I am needy of whatever good You Send down for me

 Rabbi means "my Lord".





inni means "Indeed, I am"







  lima means "of whatever"




Anzalta means "You send"






ilayya means "to me"



min means "of"




khayrin means "good"






faqirun mean "(in) need"

316 comments:

  1. Thanks for posting. Many muslims need this kind of information. May Allah bless you and your family.

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  2. Actually, I tried the above... and after 6 days... someone suddenly said to me.... that they want to introduce a match for me. That was fast! -[FBJ]

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    1. Thats really good inshallah it will work out.

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    2. Mashallah!! May Allah fulfill all ur wishes!!

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    3. Dearest FBJ,

      So, are you getting married? Can you please share your story with me.

      Regards,
      Nadeem

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    4. Salam Nadeem,
      Did you get my email with my questions regarding du'as? Please advise ( or check your spam folder just in case).
      I look forward to hearing from you,
      Regards, Samia

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    5. Plz can u share me how u have read thz dua

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  3. Masha-Allah,
    May Allah ta'ala make it easy and please pray for me by keeping me in ur duas.

    Sincerely,
    Nadeem

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  4. very good and that's the real and true fact that u can find everything from THE HOLY QURAN PAK it's only the matter of understanding it MAY ALLAH BLESS U AND ALL OF us to find solution for everything through Quran Pak
    thanks

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  5. I couldn't find from the Quran the word Jamoos (buffalo). I was wondering if the meat of Buffalo is Halal or Haraam?

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  6. How did you search the whole Qur'an for one word? Was it an online search?

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  7. Try www.quranexplorer.com just select the chapter number/verse number.

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  8. i appreciate your work.MAY ALLAH BLESS U

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  9. Assalam Alaikum,

    I have begun reciting this dua! :) I am 26, and I feel so lonely....may allah protect me from bad men.
    Ameen!

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    1. Sc wr wb, this is what I'm exactly going through. I'm 26 too and I want to protect myself from any zina. Please Make Dua for me that I find a good muslim brother, piest, who's loving and caring.

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  10. Wa alaykum assalam,

    This dua will Isha Allah make you very happy. Your lonliness and fear will all go away. Just make sure to ask Allah for someone who is going to be pious, gentle, loving and will be understanding. Make sure that you read this at least 10 times in a single sitting after salaat and include this in your daily dua after Salaat and right before Maghrib Azaan. Remember, your dua's should have the following elements:
    1. Surah Fatiha (praises and thanks of Allah)
    2. Durood Ibraheemi (salwaatun alan nabee)
    3. This dua from surah Qasas
    4. Any other duas you want to make
    5. Durood

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    1. Assalamoalaikum

      My daughter has a boyfriend who is not a Mumin. I am very sad about this. What can I pray so that believer comes to her and she agrees to marry him.?

      As her mother I am very upset with the situation. Please help me with dua.

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    2. Assalamoalaikum

      My daughter is seeing a boy who is not a Mumeen. I am very upset about this. Please help me with a dua I am can pray that a Mumeen boy comes to get married to her and she is willing to do so.

      I am her mother and very sad about the situation. Please help

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    3. Sister Raz,
      Wa alaykum assalam,

      Please check your email. I have sent you two emails. I look forward to your response.

      Sincerely,
      Nadeem

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  11. Salam dear sister and brothers. Hope you all r doing good. Thanks for this dua, i Will Inshallah try it and hope it helps me. Just an hour ago, My mum told me that because of me , she cant visit her parents WHO are old, she Said if i would been Mariried, she would be free travell . It hurt so much and Im cried so much after cause i know that my parents are so worried for me and they really want me to be happy and have à succés marriage LIFE. Im 25 years old and i feel so old. My friends and siblings Mariried when they were 21-22. I was engaged for 4 years but it did not work and i got divorce, Im really SAd because i dont have ANy happy marriage and no Education . I wish i would have one of them at least.. Plz if you have ANy suggestion of à surah to recite for Education, plz let me know, i Will read this for marriage. I just want to go on with My LIFE so My parents and siblings Will be happy to see me happy. I recite often surah Yasin, surah Noor, surah kahf. Plz mention me in ur prayers. Is it haram to say Allah fulfill My prayers and i Will give money to the poor? Thanks may Allah keep all of you happy

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  12. Salam i posted à Comment some days ago but cant see it.

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  13. salam for the third time. Now i can see my message that i sent you april 10th. plz answer me if you have suggestions of any other dua for study. For marriage i recite this one since i found ur weibsite. Im reciting it almost every day and inshallah i hope my dua get accepted as you did and hope the rest who wants to get married, also their dua get accepted. Do you know how much to recite this dua '' rabbi inni lima anzalta elaya min khairin faqeer'' ? plz make dua for me. And answer me and give me advice. I WILL BE HAPPy and waiting for ur answer. thanks

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    1. Alaykum assalam,

      Pleaes add to your daily dua's and read the following dua's to remove all sadness, troubles and pain:

      Allahumma inni aaoozubika minal hammi wal hazan,
      Wa aaoozubika minal ajazi wal kasal,
      Wa aaoozubika minal jubni wal bukhal
      Wa aaoozubika min ghalbata dayn,
      wa qahrir rijaal

      Allahum makfini bi halaalika an haraamik,
      Wa aghneenee bi fadlika amman siwaak

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      Rabbi inni limaa anzalta elayya min khairin faqeer at least 100times in one sitting and make sure to make the dua for wife.

      Remeber: A wife brings her own rizq. Once a man came to the messenger of Allah sallahu alayhi wa sallam and said he was suffering with poverty..the advise was for him to get married, he came back and complained that his problem was not solved, he was advised to marry again...

      So, this is the reality of the light of the Sunnah. Apply it and be patient. Don't lose heart. Be strong and tie a stone on your stomach if you have to as the youth of Islam. You will taste the power of Allah jalle jallalahu insha allah. Ameen

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    2. I need help to get engaged in two months please if you can help me thanks

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  14. Wa alaykum assalam wa rahmtullahi wa Barkatuhu my dearest brother in Islam. I apologize sincerely for the delay in response due to my engagements.

    I read your messages and there is nothing to be sad in life. The Duniya is a prison for the believer and a paradise for the disbeliever.

    You have your youth, maybe not a nice job or wife, nevertheless you have Imaan, Salaat, you have Allah and the ability to make Dua. You have zikr and you all the jewels of the sunnah of rasulullhah Sallalahu alayhi wa Salam. Maybe this world and the system of modern democracies may reduce the number of roti (bread slices) you can eat but the world can not reduce the number of stones you can tie on your stomach.

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  15. Assalam alaykum,
    So like I said you have nothing to lose in life as a Muslim. Unlike a non-Muslim who has NOTHING after this life. If anyone should be sad should be the disbeliever. We as Muslims should be crying that non-Muslims need hidayah and we are responsible to convey them the message. We should be sad for them. So keep this in mind

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  16. Urgent request..

    Salam,

    My parents are worried as they cant still find a compatible life partner for myself. I came across this page and thought to ask for any advice and help.

    Just want to confirm how many times I should read "Rabbi inni limaa anzalta elayya min khairin faqeer"

    I am very much worried and want to get marry as soon as possible with a genuine and honest person due to my circumstances.

    Please remember me in prayers...

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,
      Please read 33 times after every salaat and not during your monthly period. Anytime you feel you are depressed or feel u need a person in your life recite these verses as much and keep asking Allah ta'ala for your spouse/ husband. Insha Allah keep reciting as you wish and as much as you want. Remember that Surah Al-Qasas starts with Allah ta'ala mentioning that these are Ayaats that are in a book that is clear. There is nothing to panic just read and recite and ask Allah Ta'ala.

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    2. Why can't you recite this during your period? Allah doesn't stop us from dikhr, it's not like we are touching the Quran. I'm pretty sure you are allowed to recite the Quran on your period if it's already in your head and you don't need to touch it.

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    3. Please check the website askimam

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  17. salam akhi are you sure this dua really works, im not trying to be pessimistic but what if it was a coincidence that you found your wife.
    i have now started to recite this dua everyday and i hope inshallah that it wotrks for me also ameen.

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  18. Wa alaykum assalam Akhi there is nothing coincidental about this verse of the Quran. Insha Allah whether you are pessimistic or optimistic Allah tala has revealed this truth in His Kitaab and made it clear (mubeen) in this Surah the Qissa or story of Sayyidna Musa alayhi salaam for us to draw upon and benefit. In fact what the spiritual masters and Ulema in Islam don't want to do is give people these hidden gems because like the doubting Thomas most people find it hard to believe that reciting this verse would actually materialize into a meaningful marriage. I used to share this verse only with those who were really in need of marriage and were ready to do whatever it took to get a wife. Lastly, keep in mind that when shaytaan whispers in our ears about the outcome of this verse, his message is always that of desperation. To fight him when he comes to you and creates pessimistic thoughts is tell him and tell yourself that if I were to curse my father or mother in front of my family would that cause a reaction? So, if a simple curse word can cause havoc how about the kalaam (words) of Allah? They will certainly create a greater effect. So, enjoy the miracle of the Holy Quran.

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  19. jazak for your sincere advice akhi i understand and i don't doubt the verse after all its from allah's book, but can you tell me has it worked for anyone else as that would give me more reassurance and be more optimistic. jazak

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  20. Alhamdullilah I know 5 people who got married and several who found spouses but I never followed up with them.

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  21. Some people have asked why 4-months? The fact is that Muslims today are skeptical of the power of the Glorious Quran and the power of prayers. It is a common thing nowadays for Muslims to utter things like, "I keep praying and have been praying according to a certain Dua but neither did I land a new job nor has my situation improved." Theoretically every Muslim loves the Quran and believes in its authenticity as a book of Allah but to have Yaqeen is what Muslims lack. What is Yaqeen? That which is deeply seated in the heart is called Yaqeen. I will blog insha Allah on Yaqeen another day. So, the Righteous ulema and spirtual masters have come to observe that in today's time he Muslims lack maturity in appreciating the power of Allah

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  22. In light of this lack of maturity the scholars have gleaned through the Quran and Sunnah to establish a timeline for the benefit of those who lack confidence. That time frame is 4-months and Allah knows best.

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    1. Abdullah B. Mas’ud (radhi Allahu anhu) reports (more or less):

      Rasullullah sallahu alayhi wa sallam said:

      'Verily your creation is on this wise.

      The constituents of one of you are collected for forty (40) days in his Mother's womb in the

      form of blood~

      ...after which it becomes a clot of blood in another period of forty (40) days.

      Then it becomes a lump of flesh and forty (40) days later

      ...Allah sends His Angel to it with instructions concerning four (4) things !

      so the Angel writes down his

      # 1. Livelihood,

      # 2. His Death,

      # 3. His Deeds,

      # 4. His Fortune & Misfortune

      By Him, besides Whom there is no God, that one amongst you acts like the people deserving Paradise until between him and Paradise there remains but the distance of a cubit !

      when suddenly the writing of destiny overcomes him and he begins to act like the denizens of Hell

      and thus enters Hell !

      and ...?

      another one acts in the way of the denizens of Hell, until there remains between him and Hell a distance of a cubit that the writing of destiny overcomes him and then he begins to act like the people of Paradise !

      ...and ...?
      Enters Paradise

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  23. salam brother when you recited the verse and made dua for beautiful,pious,caring woman did you get exactly what you asked for by allah swt.

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    1. Salaam,
      brother do you need to resite the whole verse 24 from fasaqa or from rabi inni lema and do you need to resite this dua only during prayer times. Please can you explain

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    2. Wa alaykum assalam,
      You just have to read the portion of the ayat (verse) starting from, "Rabbi inni lema...".This is the actual dua. Depending on how much your heart and mind is pre-occupied with thoughts of wanting to be with a spouse, you should try to replace those thoughts with this dua. Because tassawur (imagination) when combined with supplications (dua) become a very power means of asking Allah ta'ala. So, some or all of the following methods:
      1. 33 times after each salaat and then make dua.
      2. 5-10 minutes before Maghrib Azaan, recite it anywhere from 3x to 33x depending on your ease and comfort. Then make a dua.
      3. Whenever your mind drifts towards thoughts of a spouse, immediately start reciting (at least 10 times) and then make dua.
      4. Recite it all day and night at anytime in any position even before going to sleep.
      5. Make it a part of your daily dua's.
      6. Learn the meaning of this dua and think of how each and every word of this dua carries such a weight that Allah ta'ala recorded this dua of Sayyidna Musa alayhi sallam in the Quran.

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  24. Wa alaykum assalam,

    Alhamdullilah my wife is pious and a very caring person. Modesty does not allow me to comment on the question of beauty. This is my private matter and I have been with my wife along with two beautiful daughters and a very handsome young son (Alhamdullilah - masha Allah). I got exactly what I asked.

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  25. which one should I read the Arabic one because in English its sound bit different compared to Arabic.

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    1. If you are able to recite the Arabic then there is absolutely no need for reciting the Quran through transliteration. Please recite in Arabic unless you have a difficulty in reciting in Arabic.

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  26. Salam,
    I am really grateful wit the Dua because I want to get married as soon as possible and have been reciting it for almost four days now and hoping that Allah the Almighty will answer my prayers because am hoping to get married before the Ramadan in sha allah. Is the dua for only spourse and can it be use in solving other problems too....

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,
      Ameen ameen ameen. May Allah ta'ala give you a pious wife and someone who will be a coolness of your heart and eyes.

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  27. Anymore duas for Almighy Allah to help make things possible or fast, really want to get married and if I may have your email address too if possibe

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    1. My email address is ekustomize@yahoo.com

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  28. Is the dua for only spouse or can it be used in solving other problems too

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  29. Asalam alaicom. May Allah the most kind most merciful bless you all with a spouse that will make your heart and soul feel ease and happiness. my name is Ahmed im 31 and finally I am in love and I'm struggling to marry this girl she is so amazing subhan Allah. Can I use this dua to pray Allah will help solve the obsticals keeping us apart? She isn't a citizen of my country and she needs a sponsor to stay. I'd love to be the one but I cannot afford it is it ok to ask for help from the Muslim community? I really need Allah help!

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam Brother Ahmed.

      (1) First of all you need to perform Salatul-Istikhaara for at least 7-days to see if this person is really meant to be for you. Keep in mind that you found a girl without reading the ayaats from Surah Qasas.

      (2) If you had read Surah Qasas and had asked Allah ta'ala for a wife that is good for your deen and duniya, then the element of Istikhara would have been included along with the Ayat from Surah Qasas. However, in your case, you already found someone. So, Istikhara is the next step in clarifying this matter.

      (3) However, if you have already performed Salaatul Istikhara and your heart is for this girl then you have to start praying the following to remove the obstacles that are keeping you apart:

      Allahumma la sahla illa maa ja'altahu sahlaan, wa anta taj'alu hazana sahlan izaa shee'it.

      This ayat of Surah Qasas can also be part of the daily dua'as as it also has the potent ingredients of making the marriage possible.

      Muslim communities today are not willing to take responsibility for others problems. This is the ground reality of Islam today. People are so confused and selfish nowadays that the spirit of giving has no meaning to anyone.

      If you really need Allah ta'ala help then the following dua's will give you all you need:

      Allahumma inni aaoozubika minal hammi wal hazan,
      Wa aaoozubika minal ajazi wal kasal,
      Wa aaoozubika minal jubni wal bukhal
      Wa aaoozubika min ghalbata dayn,
      wa qahrir rijaal

      Allahum makfini bi halaalika an haraamik,
      Wa aghneenee bi fadlika amman siwaak.

      Keep in mind that always start a dua with praising Allat tala and seeking His help through praying on time and making dua after salaat; praising Allah ta'ala, sending salaam on the messenger of Allah and making salatul hajaat along with the duas I have shared with you

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  30. Salam

    brother there is another dua in the quran that goes like this

    Rabanna hablana min azwajina wa durriyatina qurrata ayunin wajalana mutaqima immama

    i was wondering is this dua more effective or the one you have prescribed which is rabb inni lima anzalata... please can you elaborate on that jazak.

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  31. Wa alaykum assalam,
    Dearest Brother in Islam,

    The dua you have quoted is from Surah Furqan and it is considered by the Quranic Exegists (Quranic Scholars) as a quality of "Ibadur-Rahmaan".

    The dua is for those who are already married and have children. If this dua is made daily along with the dua of Surah Qasas then you will be adding more beauty and focus on the outcome of your dua.

    The dua of Surah Qasas gives an immediate effect because after Sayyidna Musa alayhi sallam had finished reciting the dua, Allah tabaraka ta'ala responded immediately. The next verse that starts with "fa jaa'at.." clearly shows the speedy response and the outcome of the dua. Whereas, in Surah Furqan this dua is given to "Ibadur-Rahman" those true and sincere servants of Allah to increase in their acts of virtue even including the wife and children. And Allah Knows Best.

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  32. jazakallah for your feedback brother really appreciate your hardwork may allah swt give you baraka and good life.

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  33. im in realation (nikkah) for last 3 years but my husband isnot ready to take rukhsati.... please tell me some dua???

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  34. Assalam alaykum Sister,

    The dua's that you will need to make everyday. After your daily salaat raise your hands to Allah ta'ala and do the following:

    1. Read Surah Fatihah
    2. Read Durood Ibraahimi
    3. Qul lillhahumma maalikal mulki tu'til mulka man tashaa'u, wa tanziul mulka miman tashaa'a, wa tu'izzu man tashaa'u wa tuzillu man tashaa'u bee-yadikal khairu innaka a'laa kulli shayin qadeer. Tu-lijul layla fin-nahaari wa tu-lijun nahaara fil layli, wa tukhrijul hayya minal mayyiti, wa thukhrijul mayyata minal hayyi wa tarzuqoo man tashaa'u bi ghairi hisaab (Surah Al-Imran)
    4. Rabbana maa khalqta haza baatilan subhaana ka faqeena azaaban naar. Rabbana innaka man tudkhilin naar faq-akhzaytahu wa maa lizwalimeen min ansaar. Rabbana innana sami'ana munadiy yan yunaadi lil-imaani an ameenu bi-rabbikum fa'aamanna rabbana faghfirlana zunoobina wa kaffir anna sayyi'aatina wa ta waffana ma'al abraar. Rabbana wa aatina maa wa'adtana a'laa rusoolika wa laa tukhzina yawmal qiyaama. Inna ka laa tukhliful mi'aad (Surah Al-Imran)
    5. Allahumma la sahla illa maa ja'altahu sahlaan, wa anta taj'alau hazana sahlan idhaa shyi'et.
    6. Any Durood Sharif
    7. Rabbana ta'qabbal minna innaka anta samiul aleem wa tub alayna innak anta tawwabur raheem

    Please start immediately and write back to me after 40days.

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  35. Thnx... I will Insha Allah let u know

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  36. Please also on a daily basis make two rakaats Salaatul Hajaat and the dua of Hajaat...
    Laa ilaaha illallah huwal haleemul kareem...(if you don't have access to this complete dua please let me know or email me and I will send all of these duas in Arabic)

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  37. Duos to get married as soon as possible because I have found a good soul mate...... please help me

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    1. If you have found someone the next step is to make Salaatul Istikhaara. This will provide you immunity from Allah ta'ala and if it is not meant to be then Allah ta'ala will find you an alternative.

      Please keep in mind there is a significant difference between the following words:
      1. Mate / Spouse
      2. Soul-Mate
      3. Potential of becoming a Spouse / Mate

      If you have no one at the moment then the dua from Surah Qasas is the starting point.

      If you had not read Surah Qasas and found someone without reading the dua, then you have to pray Salaatul Istikhara.

      If you are already married and need to unite or re-unite then there is a different set of dua's

      If your husband is abusive that is another dua.

      If your husband / wife is cheating there is another dua

      If your husband / wife yells a lot there is another dua

      If your wife is insultive and ill mannered there is another dua

      If your wife fights a lot there is another dua

      If you no longer find your husband or wife attractive there is another dua

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    2. Assalam alaykum

      I have a problem brother please give a powerful dua to clear my problem as soon it can. The thing is I like one girl n even she like me. we want to marry, her parents are ready for our marriage but my parents are not ready yet I want my parents to conform for our marriage by going to her house for tat I need a dua tat make my parents say k n get ma marriage soon please help me on this my brother pls

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  38. Salam Alkem

    I am 36 years , not married , I always pray and dont have good proposales at all , shall start on this Dua inshallah .... I am so worried , because i am a girl not married yet...

    Please advice.

    Thanks

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      Please read this dua from the Holy Quran and pray to Allah ta'ala to give you a husband who is pious, loving, gentle, hardworking, beautiful in the heart, soothing to the eyes and someone who will act as a responsible husband.

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  39. aisay insaan ko kiya kaha jaey ga jo apni BV ki maa ko galiyaan dey jab k uski BV ki maa k osper beintehaa ehsanat hoon??? aesi soorat mai BV ko kiya karna chahiye??

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    1. Aap apne ghar mein Majlis-e-Durood Shareef qaim karain. Insha-Allah 40 days kay andar aap kay ghar kay halaat bahtri ki taraf aajain gay. Bohot Mujarrab amal hai. Is ka tareeqa bohot asaan hai. Yeah amal har rooz karna hai.

      For the benefit of the readers let me write the following in English.
      1. This has to be done everyday.
      2. Select a time out of your day where everyone can join in this majlis. Meaning your children, mother and any other people of the house (including if possible your husband). But if your husband can not join then establish this gathering without him.
      3. Get some dates seeds or any seeds that can be used for counting.
      4. In a clean place (if possible with wudu) let everyone sit around the date seeds (or any other seeds).
      5. Take a note of the time. 10minutes is all you need.
      6. First 5-minutes read: "wa sallahu alan nabiyyil ummi"
      7. Then in the last 5-mins swite to the durood: "bismillahi wassalaamu a'laa rasullullah"
      8. Then raise your hands, read surah and send the blessings of this to Rasullullah sallahu alayhi wa sallam, ummaatil mo'mineen, sahaaba, sahaabiaat, tabieen, taba tabieen and all the pious elders of Islam who have preserved this deen for us. Then ask Allah ta'ala to solve your problem. To change the heart of your husband towards softness and kindness and to bless your house with barakah, sakeena and love for Allah and His Messenger.
      9. Read a durood and finish your dua.

      After 10days, add 10 more minutes making the majlis 20 minutes long. 15mins first durood and five minutes second durood.

      At 30 days, increase the time to no more than 30 minutes. 20minutes first durood and 10 minutes second durood.

      Insha Allah everything will change based on what you pray and ask Allah ta'ala.

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  40. i have sent you email but you did not reply, hope you have seen it...........

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    1. Masha Allah I think the brother has answered all possible questions.

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  41. Salam brother

    while reciting this verse do you need to make effort of seeking the spouse you are looking for or will Allah swt will bring this person to you by his hukum.

    i just wan't you to help me on this cause i am trying like joining Muslim marriage service,asked friends,relatives to help me but im always being rejected i don't know why, so far its been 2 half months im reciting this verse.

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    1. Sheikh-ul-Hadith Maulana Zakariyya rahmatullahi alayhi has written in his works that in this life and in this world we have to utilize "wasaail" (means) to achieve our "maqaasid" (goals).

      Hence, with dua we have to try our best and utilize all halal means available to us. And Allah knows best.

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  42. Salam brother,

    Are you an imaam or scholar or person who has studied the deen enough to know that your answers are correct for these people wanting to marry? Please also explain where you are getting all these duas from.

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  43. Wa alaykum assalam,
    Dearest Brother,

    I am not an Alim, I am not an Imam but I am a 2-yr student myself connected directly to Ulema-Ikraam from Jami Banuri Town Karachi. My Sheikh and my Ustaaz from that particular Darul-Uloom are the real mountain of Knowledge behind my answers, that I am sharing. In this matter I have permission (Ijaza) and where I can not answer I refer to them before posting a response. This blog is a vehicle to connect people to pious Ulema who do not speak in English. Insha Allah make dua for me that I also successfully complete my Dars-e-Nizami and become fully qualified in answering them on my own.

    Regarding this blogpost and on the subject of Dua's I have full permission to discuss and assist. Complex marital problems have to be referred to Mufi Ebrahim Desai, Mufti Taqi Usmani and similar pious scholars throug their Ifta departments via letters or websites.

    Finally, these duas are all taken from "Mukhtasar Al-Hizb-ul-Azam" compiled by Hazrat Sufi Muhammed Iqbal Muhajir Madanai (Rahmatullahi alayhi) on behalf of Hazrat Sheikh-ul-Hadith Maulana Muhammed Zakariyya (rahmatullahi alayhi).

    I hope this answers your question. Please write back if you have any concerns.

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    1. Is this person you refere to a scholar who knows and speaks and reads Arabic. Have they a degree in Islamic studies or have studied Islam in depth. You last comment refers readers to muftis so it seems this person you are getting information is neither a scholar imam or mufti.

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    2. This person is a Mufti who reads, writes and speaks Arabic. He is an Alim. It seems you are not at all conversant with the Madrasah system. My website is not Askimam.org who cater for all Islamic Questios. My blogpost caters to inform people and if there are any specific questions related to that blog that requires an in depth answer then I refer it to the mufti. Let me ask you. Are you a scholar? Will u be interested in posting on this blog? Are you from the Ulema e deoband?

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  44. Dear Anonymous,
    Why is your identity so "anonymous"? Can you also point out what has been written that is outside the circle of our deen? Who are the scholars behind your inquiry? What school of thought and or way of thinking do u carry? Are u Salafi or a muqallid? How would you offer to solve the problem of the people thru Quran and Hadith? You have asked about the source of these duas, are u not aware of these duas as they appear in the Quran and ahadeeth?

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  45. assalamu alikum

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam warahmatullahi wa barakatuhu

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  46. Asalam aliakum

    brother what if you have recited this veres for more than 4 months and you still didn't get married, what other alternative there is. jazak

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      Please keep in mind that we have to use all the means (wasaa'il) available to achieve our goals (maqaasid). Have you done that? Have you seriously looked for a spouse. Asked people, gone to a Masjid, looked at opportunities on marital websites? Have you asked your parents, asked friends, asked Muslims in general, asked an Imaam of a Mosque? Have you talked to someone and asked them if they would be interested? How are you making this dua; frequently or just whenever? Do you pray five times a day?

      Now, if you like to really take it more seriously then you need to pray salaatul Hajaat in addition to making this dua (since you have a high level of uncertainty in your heart). In fact, you can add the dua of Sayyidna Musa alayhi salaam to your dua of Hajaat. I recommend the following. Make two rakaats Salaatul Hajaat. After salaat, raise your hands and make the following dua:
      1. Read Surah Fatihah
      2. Read Durood Ibraahimi
      3. Qul lillhahumma maalikal mulki tu'til mulka man tashaa'u, wa tanziul mulka miman tashaa'a, wa tu'izzu man tashaa'u wa tuzillu man tashaa'u bee-yadikal khairu innaka a'laa kulli shayin qadeer. Tu-lijul layla fin-nahaari wa tu-lijun nahaara fil layli, wa tukhrijul hayya minal mayyiti, wa thukhrijul mayyata minal hayyi wa tarzuqoo man tashaa'u bi ghairi hisaab (Surah Al-Imran)
      4. Rabbana maa khalqta haza baatilan subhaana ka faqeena azaaban naar. Rabbana innaka man tudkhilin naar faq-akhzaytahu wa maa lizwalimeen min ansaar. Rabbana innana sami'ana munadiy yan yunaadi lil-imaani an ameenu bi-rabbikum fa'aamanna rabbana faghfirlana zunoobina wa kaffir anna sayyi'aatina wa ta waffana ma'al abraar. Rabbana wa aatina maa wa'adtana a'laa rusoolika wa laa tukhzina yawmal qiyaama. Inna ka laa tukhliful mi'aad (Surah Al-Imran)
      5. Salaatul Hajaat
      6. Dua from Surah Qasas
      7. Allahumma la sahla illa maa ja'altahu sahlaan, wa anta taj'alau hazana sahlan idhaa shyi'et.
      8. Pray in your own language and ask whatever halal to your hearts content
      9. Any Durood Sharif (salawaatun alan nabiyy)
      10. Allahumma inna nas'aluka min khairi maa sa'alaka minhu nabiyyuka (sayyiduna)muhammadun sallahu ta'ala alayhi wa aalihi wa sallam, wa na'uzoobika min sharri masta'aza minhu nabiyyuka (sayyiduna)muhammadun sallahu ta'ala alayhi wa aalihi wa sallam wa antal must'aanu wa a'laykal balaaghu, walaa hawla walaa quwwata illa billah
      7. Rabbana ta'qabbal minna innaka anta samiul aleem wa tub alayna innak anta tawwabur raheem

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  47. As salaam alai kum ....thanx fr such a beautiful sharing brother....i juz wanted to knw if I can recite dis dua fr d one I love...i m in relationship wid dis guy frm last 4 yrs n I wish to get marry to him..can I. Recite his name after reciting dis dua...is der any harm...plss assist me on dis...

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  48. Wa alaykum assalam,
    Sister,

    The first thing I will recommend is that you do Salaatul Istikhaara a few times a day and for at least 1-week. This is really the next step for you. Because in the Salaatul Istikhara you can mention his name in the portion...Allahumma inkunta ta'lam anna hazar amr...

    Secondly, after you have completed Istikhara check with him and see what are his plans in regards to marriage? When is he going to propose? Or do you need to ask him directly to get things moving right away? Do all of this after 7days of continuously praying the Istikhara prayers.

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    1. As salaam alai kum..thnx fr ur rpl brother...dis shows ur concern..m little confuse about Salaatul Istikhaara..i never did dis before n m nt sure hw to go about it...if u cn help me wit steps it will be really helping so dat I dnt do mistake...

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  49. Salam

    brother i have no home,no car, no wife, come from a very dysfunctional family feel very depressed and hopeless in life, will this dua be enough to help me solve all my problems.

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      Start the a gathering of Zikr in your home and Insha-Allah you will see a change in stages of 40 days. This is what you need to do on a daily basis:
      1. This has to be done everyday.
      2. Select a time out of your day where everyone can join in this majlis. Meaning your brother, parents or any friends.
      3. Get some dates seeds or any seeds that can be used for counting.
      4. In a clean place (if possible with wudu) let everyone sit around the date seeds (or any other seeds).
      5. Take a note of the time. 10minutes is all you need.
      6. First 5-minutes read: "wa sallahu alan nabiyyil ummi"
      7. Then in the last 5-mins swite to the durood: "bismillahi wassalaamu a'laa rasullullah"
      8. Then raise your hands, read surah and send the blessings of this to Rasullullah sallahu alayhi wa sallam, ummaatil mo'mineen, sahaaba, sahaabiaat, tabieen, taba tabieen and all the pious elders of Islam who have preserved this deen for us. Then ask Allah ta'ala to solve your problem by making dua like as follows:

      1. Read Surah Fatihah
      2. Read Durood Ibraahimi
      3. Qul lillhahumma maalikal mulki tu'til mulka man tashaa'u, wa tanziul mulka miman tashaa'a, wa tu'izzu man tashaa'u wa tuzillu man tashaa'u bee-yadikal khairu innaka a'laa kulli shayin qadeer. Tu-lijul layla fin-nahaari wa tu-lijun nahaara fil layli, wa tukhrijul hayya minal mayyiti, wa thukhrijul mayyata minal hayyi wa tarzuqoo man tashaa'u bi ghairi hisaab (Surah Al-Imran)
      4. Rabbana maa khalqta haza baatilan subhaana ka faqeena azaaban naar. Rabbana innaka man tudkhilin naar faq-akhzaytahu wa maa lizwalimeen min ansaar. Rabbana innana sami'ana munadiy yan yunaadi lil-imaani an ameenu bi-rabbikum fa'aamanna rabbana faghfirlana zunoobina wa kaffir anna sayyi'aatina wa ta waffana ma'al abraar. Rabbana wa aatina maa wa'adtana a'laa rusoolika wa laa tukhzina yawmal qiyaama. Inna ka laa tukhliful mi'aad (Surah Al-Imran)
      5. Salaatul Hajaat
      6. Dua from Surah Qasas
      7. Allahumma la sahla illa maa ja'altahu sahlaan, wa anta taj'alau hazana sahlan idhaa shyi'et.
      8. Pray in your own language and ask whatever duas to your hearts content
      9. Read: Allahumma inni a'uzoobika minal hammi wal hazan, wa a'uzoobika minal ajazi wal kasal, wa a'uzoobika min jubni wal bukhl, wa a'uzoobika min ghalbata dayn wa qahrir rijaal.
      10. Any Durood Sharif (salawaatun alan nabiyy)
      11. Allahumma inna nas'aluka min khairi maa sa'alaka minhu nabiyyuka (sayyiduna)muhammadun sallahu ta'ala alayhi wa aalihi wa sallam, wa na'uzoobika min sharri masta'aza minhu nabiyyuka (sayyiduna)muhammadun sallahu ta'ala alayhi wa aalihi wa sallam wa antal must'aanu wa a'laykal balaaghu, walaa hawla walaa quwwata illa billah
      12. Rabbana ta'qabbal minna innaka anta samiul aleem wa tub alayna innak anta tawwabur raheem

      After 10days, add 10 more minutes making the majlis 20 minutes long. 15mins first durood and five minutes second durood.

      At 30 days, increase the time to no more than 30 minutes. 20minutes first durood and 10 minutes second durood.

      Insha Allah everything will change based on what you pray and ask Allah ta'ala.

      Pls write back.

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  50. salam

    brother i think i made a slight mistake when reciting this dua instead of saying rabbi inni i was saying rabb inni missing out the i at the end i was wondering will this have an effect on my dua for the past months. please tell me jazak.

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      Making mistakes during dua unknowingly is not a problem. In fact, there is a story of Sayyidna Musa Alayhi salaam that he came across a man who was sitting on a rock and saying, "Kareel, Kareel, I will comb your hair Kareel". Sayyidna Musa alayhi salaam got upset and asked the man to stop calling upon Allah with the name "Kareel" as that was a very bad word. Some days later Allah ta'ala asked Sayyidna Musa alayhi salaam why he had reprimanded the person on the rock, because from his heart the man was praying and expressing his love for Allah.

      Hence, it is understood in Islam that dua that comes from the heart is meant for Allah ta'ala to hear. The words we use may have mistakes but those mistakes do not get in the way of the dua.

      However, it is always good to try ones best to learn and memorize duas correctly. And Allah Knows Best.

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  51. Salam alakum

    I was with someone for three years and we went our separate ways. I did isthikhara while in the relationship and it was positive. Can I do this dua to bring us back together? Or can I do this dua, without mentioning any names and inshallah if he was meant to be my husband it will happen and if not someone better will come along?

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,
      Sister,

      If you made the Istikhara and it was positive why didn't you get married? What stopped you all from getting married?

      As far as the verses from the Quran and the dua in Surah Qasas, read it all the time. Not only do you get rewards for reciting a portion of the Quran but also you get to ask Him for a spouse. However, if that person or someone different comes into your life, what are you going to do? Date them again for 3yrs?

      Marriage is a bold decision. One has to decide and take the necessary steps and precautions and get married. But if in 3yrs you couldn't make up your mind what makes you think you are ready now?

      Allah ta'ala is Raheem and Kareem. He will give if you ask. But let us appreciate his Majestic Powers and do things sincerely as His slave. And Allah Knows Best.

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    2. My mother may Allah bless her soul passed away at the time about a year in when we were having seious talks. I descended into a long period of grief. However, I agree with you, I shouldn't have and now won't wait so long.

      Some things Allah makes clear in hindsight. Inshallah, Allah will forgive and set things on the right path.

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  52. sir meri gold ki ring 29 october ko gum hui hai sir wo kisi ki imanat thi i am very worried sir plss you tell me about it wo iss din apni cousin ko dikahi thi i do many wazifa but i can not found it sir plsss help me God bless you

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    1. Please read "Ya Mueedu" 1001 times daily. Also read "Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajioon 11 times" while searching for the ring. Insha Allah bi izni Allah you will find it. Also give a Sadqah to someone and make sure you are praying all your five prayers; especially Salaatul Asr. It seems to me that you miss your Fajr and Asr prayers. And Allah knows best.

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  53. asalamualakum Nadeem bhai, it is very kind of you that you are helping people online with dua.i am sharing a problem with you and hope that you will guide me in a proper way. brother i want to marry a certain boy who is also muslim and well educated.he also liked me but now he is showing in diffrence towards me.he is realy a good person. if he agrees to marry me there wont be any problem from our families because our status is same and we both are highly educated.brother i did certain dua but may be my prayer lack something. kindly suggest me any dua which will be helpful to me. i am realy in pain because of all this.

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  54. Wa alaykum assalam sister,

    I would recommend that you make Salaatul Istikhara before you worry too much about this "boy".

    Secondly, just ask him straight as to when does he plan to get married; that is when you have at least prayed Salaatul Istikhara once.

    Thirdly, when you go to see him or before you speak with him you should ask yourself if you are praying on time? Are you remembering Allah ta'ala daily?

    What dua did you read? How do you make your dua? Start reading:
    Allahumma laa sahla illa maa ja'altahu sahlan, wa anta taj'alu hazana sahlan idhaa shy'iet

    Read the above dua walking, sitting, running, after salaat and at any time you feel pain.

    The fact that you are "highly educated" seems to heavy on your mind. What should really be heavy on your heart should be the love of Allah because that is what will bring you true happiness.

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    1. asalamualakum, Nadeem bhai, i am glad that you responded me.i will inshallah do salatu istikhara.i read some wazaif before like this one,"Allahuma-lain qalbi, falan bin falan ibni hawa,kama lainti hadidi le saedina dawood alahi salam"and in place of falan bin falan , my n his name. i am sorry that i wasnt able to spell dua properly in english.i also prayes salatul hajat.i have asked him about marriage ,but as i told you earlier ,he is showing indifference as if he isnt intrested, the problem is that i like him alot .we had been in relationship for a year,then he changed,eventhough he still cares. i dt meet him because we now live in diferent states,we write each other only once a while.i am trying not to miss any salah.he is a kindhearted and well mannered person.inshallah i will continue the dua which you told me.i request you too to please pray for me.there is one more question that i want to ask you, can we do two or more wazaif for one hajat?.thank you very much, may Allah bless you.

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    2. Wa alaykum assalam,

      May Allah ta'ala accept your duas. Like the messenger of Allah (sallahu alayhi wa sallam) said (more or less):

      Ad du'a huwal a'baada (Dua is worship)
      Ad du'a mukh-khul a'baada (Dua is the gist/summary of worship)

      So, this is an act of worship. Insha Allah your dua's will be accepted.

      I couldn't understand your last question. Please clarify

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    3. asalamualakum, my last question was ,like dua or wazifa(honestly i dt know the difference between dua and wazifa) which i mentioned earlier and another wazifa or dua like reading sura yaseen thrice .can we do both dua or wazifa for one hajat.or only one dua or wazifa for one hajat? may Allah bless you.

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    4. Wa alaykum assalam,

      Wazifa is the urdu word for what is known as Ruqyah.During the time of rasullullah sallahu alayhi wa sallam a lot of people had traditional practices that were in place for helping people against snake bites, evil omen etc.

      What the messenger of Allah (sallahu alayhi wa sallam) did was that he cleansed these practices with any traces of Shirk. These practices and many more later became a collection of what we know as Wazifa.

      If for example Surah Yaseen has to be read at a certain time and a fixed amount then this becomes a Wazifa. For example, if a student needs to pass an exam their wazifa would be to study hard. But once the problem is solved one does not have to continue with a wazifa.

      However, a dua is something that one has to make on a daily basis and to continuously ask Allah ta'ala. For example, Rabbi inni lemaa anzalta elayya min khairin faqeer is a verse from the Quran.

      If you decide to recite this verse daily without wudu or with wudu a certain number of times, this becomes a wazifa. On top of this if you decide to include this dua as part of your many daily duas you make then this becomes part of your dua's. Even after you find a spouse and get married, you can still add this as a dua. Whereas a wazifa you would have to stop once the goal is achieved. And Allah knows best.

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    5. thank you very much.you have explained me the difference between wazifa and dua in a very simple yet elaborate form.but brother i have heard that we cant read two wazifa for one hajat ie, one wazifa for one hajat only.is this true?
      fr eg, we cant read two wazifa for success in exam but only one wazifa.

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  55. salam,
    i have this partner am in a relationship with, he told mi his intensions of wanting to marry me, i did isthikhara and it was positive, his family members like me. the problem now is my aunt who i stay with dosnt like him. is there any possible duas i can do to marry him?? i would really appreciate your dua.

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      Is this person you are with a good Muslim? Are they responsible? What are the reasons for your Aunt's rejection? What does she see negative in this person that you can not see?

      Is your Aunt acting to protect you? Please write back or email.

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    2. can i please get your email

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  56. assalam o alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatauh nadeem bhai..

    Blessed are people whose parents are successful in getting them a suitable match at the right time to the right person.

    I am a sinner and have commited many mistakes in my life. But I hv put my foot down and decided to mend my way. Though I am still making mistakes but trying to take Allah's way.

    The problem is Bhai that I am all of 32 n time is not on my side. I feel the need for a partner as well as to bear children..take responsibility of running a family. But unfortunately my parents have given up n they feel if I have to get married Ill have to manage on my own. They will support me once I find the person, right or wrong. Not a very motivating statement.

    I will Insha Allah start reciting the dua from today itself. I write to thank you for sharing the dua with us. I also want to request you to kindly remember me in your prayers. Maybe with prayers from pious souls are answered faster. Jazakallah khair

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatauh.

      You are very blessed indeed. Allah ta'ala mentions in the Quran "inna allaha yuhibbu tawwabeen wa yuhibbul muta'tahireen" (more or less) Allah ta'ala loves those who repent and those who purify themselves.

      Insha Allah you will get married and I pray to Allah ta'ala that He gives you loving, caring, kind, pious and responsible husband. Pray like this and insha Allah give me the good news. Allah ta'ala loves those who consider themselves sinners. Just email me.

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    2. Assalam O alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatauh

      May Allah bless you with everything that you deserve for being such a selfless guide to us.

      I cant thank you enough for the response as I have been living with the feeling that because of my deeds I may have distanced Allah from me.

      Just one statement from you "Allah ta'ala loves those who consider themselves sinners" has actually given me a new and positive perspective to my life. I am blessed.

      I reiterate that I cant thank you enough.

      I also request you to provide the email ID where I could interact with you.

      Thank you

      May Allah Bless you

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    3. Assalam O alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatauh

      May Allah bless you with everything that you deserve for being such a selfless guide to us.

      I cant thank you enough for the response as I have been living with the feeling that because of my deeds I may have distanced Allah from me.

      Just one statement from you "Allah ta'ala loves those who consider themselves sinners" has actually given me a new and positive perspective to my life. I am blessed.

      I reiterate that I cant thank you enough.

      I also request you to provide the email ID where I could interact with you.

      Thank you

      May Allah Bless you

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    4. Wa alaykum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatauh,

      Just remember Allah ta'ala Loves Humility. He Loves Humbleness. He Loves those who shed tears. Remember the three a'in (arabic alphabet).
      Shaytaan was:
      1. A'bid (One who worships Allah)
      2. A'lim (One who is a Scholar)
      3. A'rif (One who knows Allah)

      But what was missing in Iblees? He did not have what you have, he was not:

      A'shiq (One who Loves Allah). In a conversation with Shaytaan, Allah ta'ala told shaytaan that he (Iblees) would have no power over:

      A'baadiyal Mukhliseen (sincere believers)

      Hence, you have sincerity. So, don't lose it with pride. Stay humble and stay a Lover of Allah. Pray to him. Make good wudu and make sure you worship Him 5-times daily and make dua.

      My email is ekustomize@yahoo.com

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  57. My Parents marriage is on the edge.. Please could you advise me of duas I can pray for them. Jazakallah.

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    1. If you parents marriage is on the edge there are a number of ways out of this problem. Pls write back ASAP ekustomize@yahoo.com

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  58. As salaam mu alaykum,
    I wanted to have your insight on my problem. Currently I see my life in a bad state, in the sense that I don’t seem to be happy though I have everything mashAllah ,I do thank Allah but I wish to have things that I don’t have. I graduated almost 15months back but I couldn’t find a good job,I am a very career oriented person but the disappointment of not getting a good job has made my life stressful and depressing. A moment I feel happy and content with my life that I have a beautiful family, blessed with lovely parents and have all the bounties Allah has bestowed but the very next moment regretting life and NA SHUKRA PANA would be a correct word’s do isthakara and offer salat hajat as well that whatever Allah thinks is best for me, please give me now! I have waited for soo long, but may be its still not a correct time for it..i want to ask for a dua for me plus my mother is worried for my wedding too as I am 25 now and the proposals that come to see me refuse due to the outer beauty . I also wanted to ask about Loh-e-mushtiri? I recently went to an astrologer to get a stone for me to wear but he advised me to wear loh-e-mustiri along with the stones….what is that, and what is its significance in Islam? and what is the significance of zaicha in islam?
    Suggest me a dua that’s helpful…I am in a total state of confusion
    Thankyou!

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    1. In Ha, Mim As-Sajdah verse 49-50
      "Laa yas'amul insaanu min dua'ail khair. (Mankind does not tire praying for good fortune).
      "Wa immassahush sharru fa ya'ooson qanoot" (And if ill touches him/her, then he/she is disheartened, desperate)
      "Wa la in izaqnaahu rahmatam minna mim ba'adi darraa'a massathu layaqoo lanna, Hadhaa lee"
      (And verily when We give him a taste of Mercy from Ourselves, after some hurt that has touched him, he is sure to say, "This is my due right, by merit".

      This Ayat of the Quran explains a condition that resonates your speech. So, don't despair. Be happy. You are young and healthy. All what you have to do is do the right thing.

      "Loh-e-Mustiri" are amulets and charms that may have been used by someone or some people over generations. Those stones might have produced some results for those people. However, in Islam and in Sharia'a there is nothing that points to "Loh-e-Mustiri". Yes, if there is a stone that is from Paradise it is the "Hajar al-aswad" (The Black stone) which if you and I kiss will absorb our sins.

      Similarly, "Zaicha" can not be compared to anything that Allah ta'ala has written for you in this life. No human being can create a road map for our lives. The Zaicha has the danger of "Nujoom" (magic). Because the people who put these together tend to speak as if they are authorities on behalf of Allah and his messenger (sallahu alayhi wa sallam). But there is no reality to such behavior. To predict future and tell people how things will work out for them in the future is something one must totally shun (run away from it).

      When you have the power of dua'a why do you need to rely on others? Are you so weak that you can not ask Allah ta'ala? Are you so lazy that you can not stand up for tahajjud, Fajr and Asr? Are you so weak that you are willing to pay money, spend your valuable time searching for stones to straighten your life. If you are that interested in stones and golden amulets with the name of Allah on them...go for Umrah. Please write to me at ekustomize@yahoo.com.

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  59. Salam Alkem

    I am 37years , not married , I always pray and dont have good proposales at all ,I got engaged four years ago , but that person was really bad he had affairs with other girls. He hurt me and my family mentally alot, thereofre , the engagment broke up. I did start on this Dua since begining of this month inshallah .... I am so worried , because i am a girl not married yet...I don't have any good proposale yet.

    Please help me as i am very concern and my family are worried for me.

    Please advice.

    Thanks (Neela)

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      37, 47, 57...are all numbers. Don't look at your age. Just pray this dua from the bottom of your heart. On top of that make sure you are praying 5 times daily and make sure you do your wudu correctly.

      If you develop a concern for your salaat and your wudu and take only 1 minute of your time daily after every salaat to make dua: praising Allah ta'ala and sending salaams on His noble messenger (sallahu alayhi wa sallam)along with dua of Surah Qasas and end with salaams on the messenger of Allah sallahu alayhi wa sallam. Insha Allah you will see a big change.

      Also read:
      Allahumma inna najalooka fee nuhoorihim, wa na'uzoobika min shuroorihim

      Pls write back in a month ekustomize@yahoo.com

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  60. Y u dnt respond me.
    Nur

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  61. Salaam,
    I want to get married soon and have been reciting ' rabbi inni lima anzalta...' for almost one month.
    Proposals have come but problem is they are not of my parents choice. I need Allah's help.

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    1. Wa alaykum Assalam,
      Just keep praying and asking Allah ta'ala. But if you like a certain girl then let your parents know. Just don't sit down like a lifeless person. You are not a cabbage. Allah ta'ala has given you a heart, soul and mind. Take bold decisions in life but don't ever disrespect your parents. Never raise your voice on them. Just tell them kindly your choice. You are a man and should act responsibly. The person you will marry are marrying you; parents may be a part and parcel. But avoid great injustice to anyone elses daughter if your mother is hard/harsh looking for some girl to tame and keep as a servant-wife. Is this why they are deciding on your behalf, because you are a puppy in their house? Or are you a man?

      So, if you do not have the strength nor have the position in the family to make this decision. Then don't worry. Just keep praying with this dua. It is most powerful. Allah ta'ala is Kareem and He will Help you. Insha Allah. Ameen

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  62. sir meri ingagement ko 1 sall ho gia hai pls you tell me wazifa for fast marriage

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    1. Agar aap engaged hain to Shadi kioun nahee kartay. Aap ko kyaa cheez rokh rahee hai? Kis cheez ka khauf hai? Daka to nahee daal rahay? Aik jaiz aur halal kaam may itni kiyaa mushkil paish agaee hai? Pls email me ekustomize@yahoo.com

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  63. sir app istikara kartay hain

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    1. Jee main karta houn...hukum karain mein kya aap ki madat karsakhtaa houn?

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  64. please help me and my husband did istekhara and did nikkah and now 2.7 years has been passed and we starts fighting for nothing very little issues became big one now my wants to do istekhara for rukhsati is taht ok???
    he said if istekhara become against our rukhsati i will divorce u

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  65. There is no need to make Istikhara for Rukhsati. Astaghfirullah, how dare he threaten you with such nonsense. May Allah ta'ala bring your husband to his senses.

    Please write to me on ekustomize@yahoo.com There is a very special dua in the Quran which I can not share here for everyone to use and abuse.

    Usually the little issues is where the Shaytaan starts the fires. The messenger of Allah sallahu alayhi wa sallam said (more or less) in a hadith that Shaytaan has lost all hopes of misguiding you to commit major sins but he will indulge you in the minor sins to lead you into major sins.

    You need to understand a few things here. You are are dealing with an enemy; Shaytaan. A very pious person once saw Iblees in a dream and the latter told this saint, "Let me show you something".

    Shaytaan took some honey and put a drop on a wall.
    A fly came and sat on the honey to drink from it.
    A lizard came after the fly.
    A cat ran after the lizard.
    A dog ran after the cat.
    The dog caught the cat and killed it.
    The owner of the dog and cat started to argue.
    Both starting fighting until one killed the other.
    Shaytaan said to the saint, "You see I didn't do anything".

    Everyday, Iblees is MOST happy when a marriage breaks.

    So, your story is like that of honey and fly as shared above. This means that one of you or both of you are committing some wrong / sin which the shaytaan has used as a means to start establishing his dominance over your house. So, you have to throw him out first from the house.

    This has to be done by reading durood shareef everyday for 10minutes in the house. Establish a Majlis of Durood sharif.

    The second thing is to throw him out of your husband's heart. Pls write to me and I will share with you a dua that will help you gain dominance over your husbands heart.

    Thirdly, make sure your bathrooms and house are clean. There should be no nijasaat in the bathrooms. Wash them and keep them clean.

    Fourthly, make sure you start estalishing your five daily prayers.

    Fifthly, memorize the following dua of Anas ibn Malik radhi allahu anhu and read it as much:

    Allahumma inni a'uzoobika min sharri nafsi,
    wa min sharri kulli sultaanin,
    wa min sharri kulli shaytaanim mareedin,
    wa min sharri kulli jabbarin a'needin,
    wa min sharri kulli qadaa'e suu'in,
    wa min sharri kulli daab-batin,
    Anta aakhizun bi naasiyatiha,
    Inna rabbi a'laa siraatim mustaqeem.

    Pls write back at ekustomize@yahoo.com

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  66. Assalmaualaikum Sir!!
    Plz help me...my elder sister is not getting any marriage proposals.
    We are in search past from 4-5 years but not even one got. Plz try to sort out our problem.

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  67. "Rabbi Innee Limaa Anzalta illayya min Khairin Faqeer" to read these lines ya anythng more plz hlp me i m vry much dpressd

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  68. sir i am 19 years aur meri engagement meray taya abu kay bate sikander ahmad say hui hai uss ki umer 31 years hai sir muje gold ki ring choti eid per gift milli thi jo 29 oct ko gum ho gai hai i do wazifa for it lakin nahi milli sir iam very worried jab gusa aata hay to main bohat kuch ganda dakhti hoon jis kay baad allah kay daar say roti aur mafi mangti hon sir 1 saal ho gia hai lakin shadi nahi hui unn ki sister ka rista milay ga to ho gi sir mera poora saal zaya hua abb main aur meri ammi perashan hoti hain sir main nay yah rishta aanay say pehlay wazifa kiya tha wo wazifa aache aur naike ristay kay liye tha sir main nay apni ring kay istikhara kiya jis main white aur balack light dekhi thi aur apni cousins saba jis ka ring dikhahi thi uss ko aur uss kay bhai kio dekha tha main nay wazifa bhi kiya lakin nahi milli abu khatay hain nai lay doon ga sir app plsss istikhara kar kay mere hone wale husband aur ring kay bare main bata sakhtay hain i am very worried plsssssssss you help me i offer five time prayers mujhe allah say itna pyar hai kay agar main kuch galat karon to bohot roti hon aur mafi mangati hon pehlay main jo dua mangati thi wo bohat jaldi qabool haoti thi lakin abb to aisa lagta hai jasay meray gunha mere dua main rakawat hain sir plssss you help me i am thankful to you

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    1. Dear Sister,
      Aap kay teen sawaal hain?
      1. Anghuti (Gold Ring): Aap kia chahtee hain? Mil jaee?
      2. Sikandar Ahmad sahaab say aap ki shaadi ho nay wali hai, to us silsilay may aap nay istikharaa kiyaa yeah nahee?
      3. Unki Sister say kahain kay wo surah Qasas ki ayaat shuroo kardain takay wo rukawat to hatay
      4. Aap ki ring, istikhara, cousin, saba, khuaab (dream) aur Abu...in saari baatoun may tazaad maloum hota hai.
      5. Maafi kay saat may koi Nujoomi ya Aamil nahee houn.

      Main jo kuch bhi houn wo Apnay Murshi-e-Pak Hazrat Shah Asrar-ul-Haque damatay barktahum ki jutioun (shoes) kay tufail houn. Mein bohot adna darjay ka nakara admi houn. Aap ko waqai Allah waloun say apnay maamulaat hal karwaanay hain to email karain aap mujhay, mein aap ko un ka Karachi Pakistan ka number day ta houn. Direct baat karlain, insha Allah bohot sara masail ka hal samnay aaja'ee kay bi iznillah. Meri email hai: ekustomize@yahoo.com

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  69. Assalam Alaikum, i just finished reading about "How to get married in less than 4-months" I will start doing the dua and In sha Allah believe my dua will be accepted. I'm in a relationship for like 6years now and I'm getting so confused. He's a good muslims but I don't like the way he talks to me. He calls me his slave, have told him couple of times that I don't like it but nothing has changed. He told me we will be getting married this Year July but recently he said he's not sure that I'm not serious that I need to improve on my english pronunciation and make use of my time properly. I'm desperately looking for a Job but nothing yet since last year which even makes it worst. I really do love and care about him but I'm getting tired of his fussy attitude. Please what can I really do, this is really making me depressed.

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    1. Wa alayum assalam,

      As mentioned in my email to you:
      1. Salatul Istikhara
      2. Ask him what is the reason for not marrying
      3. Remind him of the Ayat of Surah Hujuraat "walaa tanabazu bil alqaab" - name calling is forbidden in Islam
      4. Send me a copy of your CV/Resume (delete all your personal phone/address) just the resume to see what is it that you are missing in the CV that you use for "selling" your expertise.

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  70. sir main chati hon kay mere ring mill jaye kia app iss kay bare main bata sakhtay hain

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    1. Aap Ya'mueedu 1001 martaba parhain har rooz aur jab miljaye to batain

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  71. sir main nay shadi kay liye istikhara nahi kiya hai

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    1. Aap Istikhara karain insha Allah faida ho ga

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  72. salam

    brother i just wan't to know how many brothers have used this dua and they got married in less than 4 months.
    btw im not really a practicing Muslim i try my best, will this dua still be effective for me if im doing it sincerely.

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      If you are not a practicing Muslim and you go in front of your friend's mother and curse her and call the b**t*h. Do you think something will happen if your friends father is standing around?

      The point is very simple my dearest brother, if you utter dirty and filthy words from your mouth whether you are pious or a sinner; they will have an effect. Similarly, if a pious and sinner utter words of Allah, don't you think they will also have an effect?

      Do not listen to the the whispers of Shaytaan. If you recite this dua you will get rewards for each alphabet recited. A sinner or not you Allah ta'ala listens.

      Ikhlaas is the power to rule this world. You have that JEWEL. I recommend that you become associated with the people of Allah and insha Allah you will fly very high in this world and enter into Jannatul Firdaus. Ameen

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  73. nadeem bhai main sex movies dehkta hon namaz phar kar toba bhi mangta hon plss app muje koi dua bata dain kay main yah gundagi dekhna chor don

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    1. Dear Brother,

      For the benefit of non-urdu readers let me respond to you in English. There is a dua that will start to heal you very slowly. Sex movies are a crime on humanity to kill the souls of people. The dua that will help you stop watching pornographic materials are:

      Rabbi a'tee nafsiy taqwaaha wa zakkiyha,
      Anta khairu man zakkaaha,
      Anta waliyyu ha wa maulaaha

      Rabbi inni zalamtu nafsi faghfirli

      Allahumma inni as'alookal hudaa,
      wat tuqaa,
      wal a'faafa,
      wal ghinaa.

      Start with these three first and write back after continuously reading these day and night and in all your duas and after salaat. If you happen to commit this sin read immediately. Read for at least 120days and pls write back once you seen any improvement in your heart. There are more to add but you will have to write back and let me know. My email is ekustomize@yahoo.com

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  74. bhai main nay app say pocha tha kay main nay shadi kay liye istikhara nahi kiya to app nay kaha tha kay istikhara karain faida ho ga to kia app iss silsilay main istikhara kar sakhtay hain if you don't mind

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    1. Bahain,

      Afzal baat aur Sunnat to yeah hai kay aap is ko karain. Mein to aik ajnabee houn. Sunnat main khair hai. Mein khud aik bohot adnaa darjay ka nakaara ghunagaar insaan houn. Jo kuch bhi meray pass hai wo mujhay apnay Murshid-e-pak ki khidmat aur jutioun ko sidhaa karnay say hasil hay. Aap say meri dili ghuzarish hai kay Istikhara Aap karain aur faisal karain, insha Allah Istikharay ka noor aap ko hasil ho ga.

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    2. translate this for others please nadeem bhai. we all want to benefit from your knowledge

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  75. جہاں آپ کو آپ کے اسلامی اسکالر شپ حاصل کیا اور تم کیا اسکول سے گریجویٹ کیا. آپ ایک عالم ہیں؟

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    1. Aap kis deeni fikr say ta'aluq rakhtay hain, aur kin ulema say aap ka ta'aluq hai? Aajkal qatal-o-gharat ka bazaar garam hai aur deen ki fikr kay peechay kon hai har batil firqah jaanna chahtaa hai. Mein aap kay sawaal ka jawaab jab doun ga jab aap mujhay apnay Ulema aur maktab-e-fikr kay baray mein kuch batain gay?

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  76. Assalamoalaikum,

    Dear brother!

    Can you share supplications for kicking away anxiety and depression.

    Thanks

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      Dear Brother/Sister,

      You can search my blog for the title "The Dua that changed my life". Please take a look at this blogpost and let me know if it helps. Cut and paste the link below in your brower

      http://truth-sincerity.blogspot.com/2011/09/dua-that-changed-my-life.html

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  77. asalamwalekum
    dear brother
    my parents wanted me 2 marry a guy who i dont like so i broke my engagement and i wanted to marry a guy who is islamic and can understand me so plz................. pray for me and what should i do for this

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,
      Sister,

      I am assuming that you were engaged to a person who was irreligious. Are you already in love with someone else? Are you bitten by the first love bug? The fact that someone is Islamic AND understanding do not always go hand-in-hand. There are couples where husband and wife are religious and they even have children but an understanding really never develops. So, what you have to examine carefully is that what did your parents see in this particular person that they brought to you? If your parents were driven by social status and other factors; deen being the least important...then one is inclined to form an opinion that differs with them. Irrespective of opinons, did you ever make Istikhara before getting engaged? What is it that you didn't like about this person...you just couldn't love them? Are you willing to have a husband who over a period of time may grow a long beard. Because today religion has also become fashionable. Hijabs and beards are all watered down to appeal and appease. So, what is it that is really in ones heart will resonate. In today's times one could find a husband who is religious but he may be in Tabligh or follows the Salafi thought, or is a follower of Maududi, Farhat Hashmi, Yasir Qazi, Nauman Ali Khan and their likes. As long as your husband follows Kitaab Allah, the sunnah of the messenger of Allah and the way of the esteemed Sahaabah then you will certainly find a man in today's time who is right on the bulls-eye. Let me know what you think...

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  78. Dear brother,

    I have visited the following url:
    http://truth-sincerity.blogspot.com/2011/09/dua-that-changed-my-life.html.
    Can you kindly provide the arabic version of those supplications. Please also guide when to recite those supplications. Finally, do you have any tentative idea on how long does it normally take before dua begins showing its effect. I know that's a weird question to ask but it is because I am really depressed by my lack of social interaction, low self confidence and persistence anxiety that I badly want to live a normal and happy life like many other people.

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  79. Dear brother,

    Do you have any forum for discussing anxiety and depression and its solutions?

    Thanks.

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    1. Dear Sister/Brother,

      I will start a new blog on Dua's and a forum on how to succeed in life with the power of dua's. In the meantime, please just email me at ekustomize@yahoo.com

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    2. Dear brother,

      I have already e mailed you my problem that I suffer from Social anxiety and Generalized anxiety disorder and I am still waiting for your response.

      Thanks,
      Umar

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    3. Brother,

      I have already written an e mail to you. Kindly respond.

      JazakAllah

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  80. bhai kia app skin acne aur skin whitening kay liye dua bata sakhtay hain

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    1. Skin Acne and skin whitening are two different things.

      Chemical whitening from what the Ulema Ikhram have stated (askimam.org) is forbidden. Changing ones face artificially is not a good thing.

      If you really want to make yourself white and make yourself glow and want a beauty on your face then this is what you need to do:

      1. Make Salatul Tahajjud
      2. Make a lot of zikr (durood shareef) at least 10 minutes everyday. Write back and I can share with you the two masnoon duroods.
      3. Make your wudu carefully and and pray on time.

      As for ACNE, please write to my email at ekustomize@yahoo.com

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  81. salam- thank you for such good post- I have been reciting this dua you mentioned
    Rabbi inni lemaa anzalta elayya min khairin faqeer (Chapter 28, verse 24)

    for about an year now- for about 136 or more times after Isha prayers, Allhumd alot of good things have happened , studies/etc , but not marriage , i had the intention but i didn't make dua after recitation ,i just make dua for a pious man & whoever Allah thinks is good for me, during daily prayers , should I add anything more ?
    JasakAllah

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  82. Salam admin! I wrote to you april 10 th. Im acyually à woman and Im 25 years. I was engaged for some years and got divorce LAst year. Since april, i have recited this dua and i also recite other surah in quran. Plz pray for me and Wish me a good man in my LIFE so i can be happy and have children and at the same time My family Will be happy to see me being Mariried. Thanks can i ask your Email? I want to take more advice about depression and marriage. Thanks

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam sister,

      I sincerely apologize for not writing back to you. Please send me an email at ekustomize@yahoo.com

      May Allah ta'ala bring you everlasting happiness. May Allah ta'ala bring you a handsome, smart, gentle, sweet, loving, caring and responsible husband. Who you can serve and who will serve you. Ameen Ameen Ameen. Insha Allah you will be married and insha Allah Allah ta'ala will bless you with beautiful children. Just make sure you pray your five daily prayers. The power of taharah, the power of wudu, the power of Salaat and the power of dua can not be compared to anything in this life. The power of zikr of Allah is above all.

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    2. i wanted a guy who must be namaazi but the person to whom i was engaged was not naamzi and he was not offering jummah naaz also so i hate that and he also asked dowry from my father so i dint like and i said lie that i have a boy friend and all to that guy and i brake my engagement......i wanted a guy who should be islamic not only by saying but he should follow it.......plz bhai what should i do my parents are now against me what should i do and plz pray for me . i want a gud husband which can lead to good duniya as well as akhira.......... plz bhai i want to marry as soon as possible to make my parents happy

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  83. My real name is not zahra. I dont want to write My real name

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  84. dear brother - I posted my question on the 9th june, but cant see my post on your page-

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  85. Assalam Alaikum brother, i just read your article about "How to get married in less than 4-months". Inshallah I will start reading the dua and will believe that my dua will be accepted soon.I have a few questions for you and would like to know your opinion from an islamic perspective but before that I want to give you a bit of background about me.

    I was in love with a guy whom I met online 3 years back. We used to chat almost everyday on the internet and used to share everything like best friends. At first I was not very serious about him but as I got to know him, I started loving him for the kind person he is. I found him to be a very caring loving and a responsible guy. We both where quite serious and we wanted to marry each other.

    When I told my mom about it, she was quite upset and felt he was not a suitable match for me. I come from a well off family and I am well educated alhumdullilah. Whereas he's a normal middle-class guy who is not so educated and works on a less income and supports his family. My mom believed that he maybe a good guy but she said our background status does not match at all. She also explained to me that I might have a difficult time adjusting in his family and his living standard, as he won't be able to give me as much as my dad has provided me with alhumdullilah.

    At some point, I was fighting for my love but then I gave up on everything. I din't want my parents to feel ashamed in front of other relatives just because of me. I love my parents so much and I would never want to go against their decision and force them to get me married to someone whom they disapprove. So, I just believed that this is destiny and maybe Allah has someone else for me. I left the guy and its a month we are not talking to each other. All I know is that he is engaged and happy with his fiancé alhumdullilah.

    I am still single and my parents are looking out for me. But I miss this guy so much. Sometimes I feel that I made a mistake by leaving him and should have been firm on my decision. Their is this big confusion still on my mind.

    Please suggest me some dua that could help me overcome these thoughts. It's very hard for me to believe that he is engaged. I really don't want to be jealous of his fiance but its so natural. Please also suggest me a dua that will help me overcome this feeling of jealousy. I would also like to know your opinion whether I took a right decision or a wrong decision in this matter? Did I do a very selfish thing by leaving him just because he wasn't unto our standard? Will Allah Punish me for this? I always ask Allah forgivness after prayers if I did any wrong.

    It's not that I am desperate to get married. It's just that I used to chat with him everyday and tell him each and everything. He was like my best friend. Now that we are not talking to each other, I miss him a lot. I really want someone to replace him as soon as possible. Please remember me in your prayers.

    Jazakallah!

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  86. Assalam-o-Aliakum, please give me your e-mail address so that i can write to you about my problem. Jazak ALLAH Khair.

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  87. salam,
    i sent you an email few days back but i havnt gotten a reply. would be grateful if i get a reply.

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  88. Assalamu Alaikum
    I am trying my son to get married, I was reading the above surah seven times after every namaz. Do I have to read Durad e shareef before and after and than make dua. He was talking to some girl, but due to miscommunication she backed out. The parents were nice and my son liked the girl. What dua should I read to get that proposal back. Please advice. keep us in your duas. Jazakallah

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  89. Wa alaykum assalam,

    You are reciting this dua correctly. Just because of this question and similar questions, please read the last part of my blog. I have updated it just to answer this question. For your convenience, I have cut and paste what you will find above:

    Methods and Procedures of Making this dua
    Firstly:
    Since, this is an ayat of the Quran it is not recommended by the Ulema (please check with askimam.org) women who have their period should avoid reciting this ayat of the Quran.

    Secondly:
    Since, this is a dua it can be made at anytime meaning walking, running, sitting and laying down. As many times and as much as one desires. While engaged in any of these activities one should read as much as ones heart desires. But if you are looking to do it a fixed number of times than 10, 33 & 100 times are good according to ones ability.

    Thirdly:
    Since, this is a dua it can be included in all your daily duas that you make after your obligatory prayers.

    Forthly:
    If at any other times you wish to sit down and take the time to especially make this dua (for example at Tahajjud, before Maghrib prayers or at any other times). In this case the recommended way is (with or without wudu):
    -Recite Bismillah
    -Recite Surah Fatihah
    -Recite Salwaatun-alan-nabiyy (Durood Shareef as commonly known in subcontinent)
    -Make tawba to Allah ta'ala
    -Read the dua of Surah Qasas
    -Then ASK Allah ta'ala for a spouse.
    -Finish with Durood Shareef
    NOTE: When you ASK Allah ta'ala make sure you ask for a spouse that is pious, upright, honest, caring, loving, responsible and anything more as long as it is "jaiz" - not outside the circle of deen. For example, don't ask for a "clean shaved" husband or "a wife without hijaab".

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  90. Salam

    I am 36 yearss.
    I have started reciting the above mentioned dua in every waqt.I am hoping to have a good spouse by this Ramadan.
    Pls include me in your prayer.

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    1. wa alaykum assalam,

      I will insha Allah remember you in my dua's.

      Sincerely,
      Nadeem

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  91. salam bhaiya
    I am writing to you as I anot receiving any propsal..the proposal we like but the other side doesnt want to make forward. what we do not like at all,they want to move forward..
    I am now 36 yrs now...once I rejected so many proposals I mean somehow these were by passed. Because I thought those were not good for me..now everybody is blaming me , my father used to humiliate me in front many ppl in this regard.
    Doesnt Allah give ppl second chance? I am contiously making dua...earlier I used to change wazifa frequently. now from this month I ve started with your advised dua ...rabbi inni.....along with some other daily dua at f tym salat...once a mowlana told that my marriage is not happening since people make bad comments against me...
    can you pls suggest ?


    Regards.Sharmeen

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    1. wa alaykum assalam,

      What has happened in the past is gone. What is going on now is important and the future is in the hands of Allah ta'ala.

      Allah ta'ala has already given you a second chance and will give you another 100+ chances. So don't despair. STOP all WAZEEFA'S. Stop stop stop. Please STOP. Are you praying five times? I am not in any position to comment about the Sheikh who made those comments because it is not clear what was told to him. However, it is not befitting an Alim of Deen to give answers like that...unless he knew something that I don't know. But even then what is important is to find a solution; because there is always an answer even when there is no answer. So pls write back to me at ekustomize@yahoo.com

      Sincerely,
      Nadeem

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  92. bhai plsss you help me i am mentally tisturb i lost my gold ring i don't now that it was stolen or lost my ring was lost 8 month before i read 12000 time bismillallah and also read wazifa for this i am totally disturb plsss you give me some dua and you tell about it that i found this ring or not.also tell me,as you write in a answer of a girl recit ''ya mueedo'' 1001 time;this wird will be helpful for me and how many month i recite this wird

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  93. Asak Nadeem bhai,
    i am frm dxb i am a divorcee and reverted muslim i will not take much of ur time but with a great difficulty i made up my mind to marry a muslim guy i met one guy he promised me tat he will marry he has a daughter i was ready to accept her his sister also from india spoke to me and said bhai nikkah aap se hi karna chate hai dont i was totally involeved wid him and suddenly he stopped calling me he is not visistng me dont know waht happend all of a sudden Allah ki kasam bi kaye the ki aap se hi shaadi karunga why my first marriage also didt work out i want tis guy i was in relation with him i know i hae done a haram thing now wat i have to do
    pls advise

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam Sister,

      First and foremost just make Tauba to Allah ta'ala as Allah has mentioned:

      Inna Allah yuhibbu tawwabeen wa yuhibbul mutatahireen..

      So, don't panic. The Master of this World is Merciful unlike this world and the people of this world, who are mostly running around spell bound by their sins and their desires.

      First of all stop all contact with this person. Make tauba. Then make sure you are praying 5-times daily.

      Keep reciting this dua, and ask through someone that you want this person to give you a firm date on marriage. No more games and playing around. If he can not value you as a person then why are you so interested in him?

      Allah ki qasam khanay ka kiyaa faida, Jab Allah ki man kar chalnaa hi nahee? Kam azkam aap to apnay aap ko paakizgi ki taraf lain...uski parwaa na karain. Wo marta hay yeah jeetaa hai. Aap apni akhirat aur Allah say ma'Allah ta'aluq seedha karain.

      Keep reciting this dua and write back to me on my email

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  94. salam brother in islam..i have a very serious problem this june m turning into 37years of age and my family has been refused many proposal for the reason best known to them...I am Alhamdolilah good by face as well as by heart...i did lot of wazaif now m requesting to you please do pray for me in this SHABAN as well as IN RAMADAN....badly need your prayers your sister in ISLAM

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      It is not a problem at all. Age is never a problem, yes in today's society it creates a mental pressure and pain because people don't have manners on how they tease women about this sensitive matter. I am sorry that you are feeling the pain and hurt, but don't worry. Stop reading ALL WAZAAIF. Please stop. Just recite this verse of the Quran as it is the kalaam of Allah and it was a dua recited by Kalimullah - Sayyidna Musa alayhi salaam. Please send me an email at ekustomize@yahoo.com

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  95. Salam Alkem

    I am 39 years , not married , I always pray and dont have good proposales at all ,I got engaged four years ago , but that person was really bad he had affairs with other girls. He hurt me and my family mentally alot, therefore , the engagment broke up. I did start on this Dua since begining of May 2013 inshallah .... I am so worried , because i am a girl not married yet...I don't have any proposale yet. I can not pray five times a day , because i am working during day miss three pray per day , but I do them at night, I receit ( Allahumma inna najalooka fee nuhoorihim, wa na'uzoobika min shuroorihim ) I do recite Surah Quess

    رَبِّ إِنِّى لِمَآ أَنزَلۡتَ إِلَىَّ مِنۡ خَيۡرٍ۬ فَقِيرٌ۬

    10 times a day... Is it fine?

    Please help me as i am very concern and my family are worried for me due to my engagment broke up my mom , family and people they are not treating me well, it caused me so much depression and upsad , I can not concentrat on anything properly , i enroled my self to study and I have failed the same subject for 4 times, now I quite studying ( Because it's expensive and i failed it). I have diffulties finding a good job , passing exams ,and everything. I really dont know what do?

    Please advice and help me.

    Please remmber me in your pray.... Thanks so much .

    Your sister...

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      What job are you doing that you can not pray five times a day? Is it that important for you to have a job that makes you further away from Allah ta'ala? Can you please send me an email at ekustomize@yahoo.com, so that I can discuss this matter over the email in privacy with you.

      Regards,
      Nadeem

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  96. Asalaam,
    I am 29 years pld and am deaf. I am always depressed about future. I want to get married soon. Please help me. Reply me

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      Don't be unhappy, nor be depressed. Insha Allah you will find someone if you read this dua. Remember this dua is recorded in the Quran - the word of Allah. The words that came out of Sayyidna Musa alayhi sallam are the words of a prophet who was able to speak to Allah ta'la. So, read and write back.

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  97. Salam

    I am 27 years, not married yet and looking for the proposal.Though I love a guy a good muslim but my parents are not ready for the caste difference and not able to make them understand.

    I have started reciting the above mentioned dua since a month. I am hoping to have a good spouse by this Ramadan or asap as Allah wills.

    Pls every1 include me in your prayers as I badly need them.

    Your Sister in islam..!!

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      What do you mean by Caste Difference? There are no castes in Islam like Hinduism. Insha Allah I will pray for you.

      Nadeem

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  98. Salaam,

    would like to know if i can call you. if yes then can i have your contact no. I am from Mumbai, India

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,
      You are welcome to call me but first email me at ekustomize@yahoo.com

      Regards,
      Nadeem

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    2. i have already sent u an email. pls reply

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  99. Thank you for sharing this dua. Would you know a dua that will help me and my husband have a child? We have been married for 10 years and it is our deepest desire.

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    1. You are most welcome. Your situation reminds me of Zakariyya alayhi salaam. The common factor between your situation and that of Zakariyya alayhi salaam was the "time elapsed". In your case it has been 10yrs too long.

      My own brother went through this painful experience of not having any children. But insha Allah, I am very hopeful that Allah ta'ala will grant you many beautiful and pious children from His treasure.

      The dua is in Surah Al-Imran:

      Rabbi Habli min ladunka zuriyyatan, tayyibatan, Innaka sami'u dua'a

      You are welcome to write at ekustomize@yahoo.com

      Sincerely,
      Nadeem

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  100. Salam Bhaiya,

    I have sent two mail to you from flyover09@gmail.com

    Regards.Sharmeen

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,
      Sister Sharmeen,

      I will insha Allah respond to your email today.

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    2. Aslm plz help me how to read thz dua does i need to read 10 times ie., bismiallah ,surah fateha ,durood e shareef , and surah qusas ayat 10 times or more we need to read all thing or only surah qusas ayat plzz rply me soon clearly

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  101. Aslm im confused how to read thz dua can any plz tell me did i have to recite bismillah surah fateha durood e shareef and surah qusas ayat all thz 10,33,100 times or only surah qusas ayat plzz share with me soon i want to recite in the month of ramzan

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  102. Aslm im confused how to recite thz dua plz say me clearly im reciting 10 times after every namaz 10 times bismiallah, 10 times surah fateha, 10 times durood e shareef ,10 times surah qusas ayat ,n asking for sponse thn end with 10 times durrod e shareef is that the right whch im reading plz rply me fast im waitng i want to get married soon plz evryone pray for me jazakallah

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  103. Salaam,

    I am 40 years , from india, not married , I came across your website and dua from Surah Qasas. And have started reciting it. Have to increase the no of times I have to pray now. Earlier I used to skip some time namaaz but now started to pray 5 times.

    I need your help in advising me. i have sent you an email to your mail id. Pls reply when you receive my mail.


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  104. Salaam Nadeem bhai,

    I have just posted my msg few min ago, i also wanted to ask you that the dua from Surah Qasas you mentioned is in Chapter 20 of Quran and not Chapter 28. verse is the same

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  105. Salam brother

    can you tell me how many people benefited from this dua and how many people you know got married after reading this dua jazak.

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      Your question seems to have an element of doubt as if to say, that if no one had any success than what is the point of making this dua.

      I am saddened by your question. The straightforward answer is that countless people have found their spouses and above all Sayyidna Musa Alayhi salaam found his wive. He was kalimullah and his words of supplication are recorded in the Quran the Kalaam of Allah. If I call you a bastard child, or call your mother a whore and your sister a prostitute in front of you and your family what will you say? Will it affect your feelings? So, if filthy words like "bastard", "whore" and "prostitute" used in the context of your beloved ones can cause pain and hurt, one should than argue that does cursing cause any pain and hurt? Does uttering a four letter "f***" to your own father and mother and siblings cause any effect? If the answer is YES than how can one even dare to think that the words of Allah and dua have no effects???

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  106. Salam bhai,

    I have emailed you yesterday. Can you please respond.

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  107. Salam Bhai.
    My problem is that I love a boy since 4 years. He knows about it. He is a very nice and religious man .. We talked about the wedding and family. I made isthikhara on him too, and it came positive sign. But the problem is that he is not intresert in me, because he knows that his family will not accept me. He comes from a family where they do not accept love before marriage. So I do not know what to do. Everything is fine with us. But he does not like me, shows no interest because of their family.

    What should I read to him in my life or to get him to accept me?
    Which dua or ayaat should I read?
    I love him truly, my family knows about him and they are willing to accept him.
    I feel depressed sometimes, because I think a lot about it.
    I hope you will come to help me.

    Thanks in advance.
    I will wait for a response.

    From
    Sister in Islam.

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      Why don't you do like Hazrat Khadijah (radhi allahu anhu) and send a male or someone from your family to him and nicely put to him that there is this sister who likes you and has interest. Please write to me on ekustomize@yahoo.com

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    2. I have emailed you.

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  108. salam bhayaa..
    Thanks for the dhua. i will be starting this dhua as soon as possible. before Ramadan i got a proposal and their response was positive in all aspect and planned to arrange our marriage after Ramadan. but suddenly he stop calling me and even his parents stopped calling my mom. she is very much upset and disappointing. i need some dhuas tht wil help me to arrange my marriage as planned before(august 18th) since am getting older(31 nw).
    Thankyou bhayaaa

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    1. Wa alaykum assalam,

      Pray salatul hajaat and recite Surah Yaseen in the morning for at least 7 days and ask Allah ta'ala.

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  109. Asalm walekum brother!

    i want to ask dua for my problem
    I recieved proposel 4 months back my parents make all the inqure everything is fine they r a nice and respected family everything is so clear the boy is so nice mashaAllah, responsible and do respect for elders inshaAllah i will be so happy him.
    The problem is my father has made the condition that if u want to marry my daughter buy a home for her...and my brother u also know its not an easy to buy home so soon! The boy is doing all the things which my dad is saying... He is yateem he dont have gis father and my father is not understanding his situation :(
    Still he is trying to mange to buy a home for me!!
    This is too much now i feel sad.
    He has a home already but my father's condition make us both worried and sad... Every body is trying to convince my father he is a egocentric person he loves his ego and rule even he is not having any merci on me that i have stoped eating from so many days.
    I used to pray daily my eyes r in bad condition due to crying alot.
    Plz help me brother.... He is a nice person mashaAllah nd m sure he will lead me to the jannah inshaAllah so i dont want to loose him. Plz make dua for me and tell me some wazeefah.
    My age is 25 already i got engaged and due to some reason broke up after that i was relax because i dont wanted that guy but that matter took two years of my life... Now this man is so nice he have no issue with my past and accepted me with everything! He is not so rich but he is rich by his heart by his deen and his good deeds.

    Plz help me brother
    Jazak Allah

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  110. Brother i want to add that my mother and me did the istekhara which was good and khair.
    One more thing i want to mention that his mother is so close to deen so she told me that dont worry Allah has given her some ishara!
    She saw me in a dream that m reading Quran so she is satisfied...
    But my father!! :(
    Plz help me brother and plz do remember me in ur pryaers plz do a spcl prayer in this holy month i badly need prayers.
    Jazak Allah

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  111. Bhai, I emailed you on 18th July, still awaiting for your response.

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  112. I want to marry a person but he is a bit scared and reluctant to talk to his parents that they might disapprove me. I need dua to recite so his parents should agree for our marriage. plz

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